Today was a very tough day for us. It has been a roller coaster of emotions. I went in this afternoon for a doctor's appointment since it had been over a week since my last appointment. Everyone felt bad and asked how I was doing. I told my doctor I was alright, but really worried that something was going to happen to Ben. I have had that fear from the very beginning of this pregnancy. I think it is due to the fact that getting pregnant for us was not easy and a very difficult time for me. My doctor said that I was still measuring very big and my cervix had not changed from last week. He wanted to go ahead and do another ultrasound to see how big Ben is getting. The ultrasound showed that he is about 9 lbs. That is even bigger than we originally thought. He offered to go ahead and do a c-section in the morning or stay with the induction on Monday. He recommended going ahead with the c-section. He said if we wait until Monday that I am at a high risk of having to do a c-section anyways due to the baby's size, an unfavorable cervix for induction, and me being overweight. That was one of the toughest decisions we have ever had to make. I really wanted to give it a shot at having him vaginally, but we decided that what was most important is that Ben arrives safely and is healthy. So we are going ahead with the c-section tomorrow at 7am. Please don't leave any negative comments saying we made the wrong decision. I know that they can be off with the weight and he could end up being around 8 pounds, but on the other hand it can be off the other direction and he could be closer to 10 pounds. This was very hard for us and we aren't doing it because we can't wait until Monday or because I am getting uncomfortable. We just feel that we should follow what our doctor recommends.
Please pray for us tomorrow, that everything goes well and that we have a healthy baby boy. Please also pray that I will have peace with this decision.
15 comments:
Would NEVER EVER say a mean word about your decision! Prayers go out to you and for the safe arrival of sweet Ben!
~ELyse~
You should be so proud of what an amazing job you've done to bring Ben all the way to full term so smoothly. The fact that he is so big is a testament to what a good job you've done "baking" him. You don't have to apologize or justify yourself to anyone because you are the mama and you know what's best for your baby!
I love you very much and I can't wait to see you with sweet Ben in your arms.
Praying!
You totally made the right decision!! They told me Micah was going to be around 10 lbs, and my doctor was guessing high 9lbs. He came out almost 11 lbs!! You went with your gut, and that makes you a great mommy! Good call.
I will be praying for you, for Shawn and for Ben. So excited that you'll get to meet your little one soon!
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I don't know if you'll even see this before you head in tomorrow but just had to write. I've had 6 c-sections. My first was because my blood pressure was going up and my daughter showed no signs of ever wanting to come out. Did try laboring with my second but she was 11 lbs 9 oz and even these hips couldn't handle that.
Anyway, just wanted you to know I'm here if you need me! Will answer any questions...if you even get this in time.
He died that we might live! Praying hard right now!
Hebrews 2:9 But we see Jesus, who was made a little lower than the angels for the suffering of death, crowned with glory and honour; that he by the grace of God should taste death for every man.
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Good luck Dana - I hope all goes well, seems like only yesterday you were a baby....
Dana, you should be proud and excited for the big day! Only you and Shawn can make such an important decision, together with Prayer and the advice of your doctors. No one should judge you! We love you so very much and can't wait to meet Ben! (We'll be in Austin in May... hope to see y'all and meet him then!!) Praying for a perfect delivery and a healthy baby & mama!!!!!
You poor thing, these past few days must have been torture :(
Praying for you and your sweet baby boy.
Can't wait to see pictures!
Dana...How exciting Benjamin is going to be in your arms tomorrow! You have already proven to be a great mom...making difficult decisions to protect your boy that are counter to what your original plans may have been. I will be praying all goes smoothly and that you will be able to focus on all things positive! Enjoy the moment. Congrats to you and Shawn and welcome to baby Benjamin! -Hillary Briggs Solomon
I'm looking at my clock and wondering if you are now holding your beautiful baby boy! Great job looking at all the "pros and cons" and making the right decision for your family. Congrats!
Dana-Just want you to know I am thinking about and praying for you today. You will feel most amazing when you hold little Ben in your arms!
Angela (Field) Pivonka
Popped over from A&A's blog. I think you made the very best decision for your baby. I pray that everything goes smoothly, and that Ben arrives safe and healthy!
God bless you!
I get where you are coming from. My daughter was not a planned C-section, but at 10.8 lbs 15 days early, it was the best decision all around. I kept telling my husband that "it's not supposed to be like this." I had wanted to deliver her. That's what moms do, right? But seeing my sweet girl and holding her was all that mattered in the end. Congratulations!!
btw, I hopped over from Adam and Andrew's.
updates, updates, updates, please!
I want to see pictures.
I hope it all went well and you're enjoying your time as a family of ThREE.
Congrats! I hear that he is here!
So thankful he's here safely and that you're ok. I think he looks like granddaddy Kent!
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